Most people would assume that being attractive makes life easier. I don't particularly think I'm super pretty or really unattractive, I was told I was "cute" for most of my life and that's absolutely fine for me, but I went on vacation somewhere where I was apparently quite attractive to the people there and the way I was treated was really interesting compared to how I am treated in normal life where I live. Amen to that! People hate attractive people who know and understand their perceived power over others. I know it's a compliment, but I've heard that it usually means the girl is really pretty, but not beautiful or model pretty. But the real upside of beauty is all the practical powers that go along with being desired. Strap on your goggles because our next stop on the Sexy Week tour is the Internet’s top notch home for everything gross–Reddit. It seems that age and status were the main characteristics mayans looked for in a sacrifice, they would sacrifice warriors and children mostly. It seems that being a bit dependent on one's partner is a good thing, based on this Reddit user's post. You never know if people actually like you or just want to bang you. I hardly get a second glance anymore, but I had similar experiences until recently. Being pretty is a goal for lots of people--it’s a great way to improve your self esteem and self confidence! View 3 832 NSFW pictures and enjoy PrettyGirls with the endless random gallery on Scrolller.com. For most of my life, I looked like a stereotypical nerdy girl: no fashion sense, sporting glasses and nose always buried in a book. Men obsess over beautiful, young women. At my current job, my managers have been very candid with me about hiring me two years ago. You're more likely to be kidnapped by Vikings and taken to Norway as plunder, or sacrificed to the Mayan Gods, kidnapped by Vikings and taken to Norway as plunder. I know plenty of pretty and beautiful people who have gotten bullied. This is a safe place to candidly share thoughts, promote respect, and foster good discussions. Probably they need therapy after the fact. Your wife sounds awesome. By Janet Moc k. June 28, 2017. The fact is bullying is bullying no matter what the comments are. The thing I love the most about being pretty is that it gives me a perfect disguise. Men became extremely helpful. Being pretty makes finding a job easier. 77 votes, 166 comments. I’ve definitely passed a few classes I shouldn’t have by batting my big brown eyes and crying crocodile tears. I think the worst of it is when you're dating someone, and they slowly get more and more "protective" of you. It makes you more popular, in real life as much as in social media (which, in turn, makes it easier to gain money). Well, first of all, you cant know it. I can wear make up, do my hair, wear a lovely dress and heels and I'll never look like a 9/10. It has to be because I’m ugly. Being attractive and viewing your identity and sense of worth through the eyes of others will kill even the most beautiful woman's self esteem. Do you have any insight to offer on why some attractive women get angry when you don't treat them the way everyone else treats them? The way you treat other people goes a long way in how they see you. Woman Asks Reddit Users How They Deal With Not Being “Pretty” And Man’s Reply Wins The Internet I've got your schedule in order, do you want to see my tits now? It helps with career advancement in many professions (not all, mind you, but enough to point to … I've been asked to model. This is kind of a weird anecdote. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Anonymous Answered Mar 4, 2014 Cute, handsome, and hot are all forms of attractiveness, but women will have different preferences. I like the brunette-serious eyebrows and glasses kind of look." Just like pretty people might bully and ridicule an ugly person for being unfortunate in the looks department, an ugly person could bully a pretty person due to jealousy that that person is prettier than them. I once had a boss take me on a "surprise date" by saying he wanted to meet up to discuss work-after work. Know that beauty also comes from the inside. She's also a mathematician who has worked for MDA and NASA but is currently working in a think-tank for developing new radar software. by Aiman Shahab November 25, 2018, 10:39 pm. Cat called, assumed to be as smart as a brick, sexualized without trying, attracting men so often you can't figure out their intentions so you stay single because you don't want to be used by a guy who just wants to brag to friends that he Fked you. Mostly because of my pure hatred for that song. r/AskReddit is the place to ask and answer thought-provoking questions. Ah, the thing is, it doesn't have to be that, at all, because there's a difference between being attractive and being approachable.. For instance, confidence is widely attractive. /R/Jailbait was a subreddit devoted to content that featured provocative photos and videos of teenagers. Being Pretty on the Inside 1. I once walked into an Abercrombie & the manager approached me and asked if I was interested in a job! Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Based on your comment and several others it seems like a lot of women find it annoying, but I've also seen them get upset when someone doesn't bend over backwards for them. Much like bullying girls for being pretty, people bully the skinny for their weight. I got a few creeps who were super handsy, but generally, everyone was just so nice. Now, I prefer big, burly, manly men. r/AskReddit is the place to ask and answer thought-provoking questions. Being breathtakingly gorgeous can really take its toll on a woman’s psyche, or so I’ve heard. Hello, Sir Bossington. Being confident in her looks, knows she turns heads but it is silent about it; assertive in a way. Even the prettiest girl can lose friends if she is mean, manipulative, or uncaring. Then they see I have a beard. They just don't do it for me anymore, there's no real explanation. I don't think having someone know they're attractive makes them less attractive necessarily. I've gotten nearly every job where I've been interviewed by a man. The most fascinating part was the reactions from women, because either they were just as nice or flat out ignored me (after giving me thorough once-overs). Go on to discover millions of awesome videos and pictures in thousands of other categories. My best friends sister is very attractive, and although she's not your stereotypical dumb hot chick, she was very often oblivious to guys hitting on her and making a move. Reddit User Asks Women How They Deal with Not Being ‘Pretty’, and One Man’s Reply Will Blow You Away. There’s even a whole field dedicated to this: pulchronomics, or the study of the economics of physical attractiveness. Taylor Hill/FilmMagic. Men hold the a lion's share of power in the world. He was not pleased. So, being emotionally high-maintenance can be a positive thing because it allows for that vulnerability to come out, which can bring you and your partner much closer. Before I knew I looked pretty good (according to other people, having a hard time convincing myself sometimes) it was really confusing and frustrating when guys would act like that. Since it was an honor to be sacrificed to a god this seems logical, as only the best and most pure could have such a chance. From sideboobs to scruffy chests, we found a lot of sexy … *I chose to write this anonymously so as not undergo the inevitable scrutiny of my physical characteristics that answering a question like this would trigger. Any stupid thing. With the attractive women I've known, all of them seem to have no trouble finding a job. I am a person, hidden behind an attractive mask. r/PrettyGirls: PrettyGirls is a SFW subreddit dedicated to beauty. My boyfriend and I were cuddling in his bed, my head on his shoulder, his arm around me in a tight embrace. Enter college, male students staring during lecture, professors and GSIs being extra friendly, you get grades you know you didn't really deserve, invited to parties by people you barely know, told you're beautiful by random people on the street. I'd say it really depends on the persons mental state. It was pretty disgusting. Being Pretty Is a Privilege, But We Refuse to Acknowledge It. Being pretty has some major benefits. But I also get called cute, hot, and beautiful. In Africa some tribal dudes offered my parents 10 camels for my step sister. I was around 16/17 when I realized men seemed incapable of saying no to me and that I could get a guy to do anything. The best and the worst parts of being conventionally beautiful are handed to us, and we can choose to accept the parts we want. Everybody is beautiful, and it’s important to remember that it’s not just what’s on the outside that makes you pretty. I get called very pretty quite often. And I am a Arab man. Wow, this is sort of fascinating, where was this? 30.5m members in the AskReddit community. Then it hit me. I was born with many features considered conventionally attractive, and those combined with a fast metabolism, great health, and decent skills with makeup all contribute to a pretty good-looking exterior. I thought every girl lived like that. Being told you're beautiful hardly registers after a while. Nicole Flasco. Press J to jump to the feed. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts So to this, I'd say its ... interesting. And despite having the education, work experience, and letters of recommendation from influential people, dorky engineers in ill-fitting Polo shirts can not comprehend that she knows how to do her job because she is young and gorgeous. 31.0m members in the AskReddit community. Being attractive and viewing your identity and sense of worth through the eyes of others will kill even the most beautiful woman's self esteem. Hence, beauties get to partake in some of that power. But someone with a lack of confidence tends to be more approachable, and might get more strangers interacting with them, either positively or negatively. I'm not beautiful but my wife is. Press J to jump to the feed. As pointed out before they also had a very peculiar concept of beauty. I wish I had gold to give you. There’s actually been good research into the advantages of beauty. He gave me the street address to meet him at, which turned out to be a lounge downtown and he decided he was too tired to talk about boring work... Women either hate you and act competitive or they worship you and start imitating you, which can be really creepy. I think having money is the parallel to this for men. I was around 16/17 when I realized men seemed incapable of saying no to me and that I could get a guy to do anything. 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